Ok, so, here's the thing - Vigilance or Glory? I want to be a good, solid tank, but I also want to be able to sometimes boost the folks in my party. I think the problem is this - I don't know if I want to be thought of as a possible "go to person" to tank just one thing, or the "go to person" that someone says "Go stand behind her. If he/she/it gets through her, then we didn't have a chance to begin with". (Just with a PVP focus, because I'm really not into the PVE in this game.) I do think I'm leaning more towards the latter, but honestly, every time I try to read any of the class guides for this game my eyes glaze over.
Then there's the whole gear thing, and what I should be focusing on...ugh. SO! I come to you, my fellow Family members, to ask "Anyone got any ideas for me?"